I haven't been on Facebook until today. That's when I saw messages for me to see. I thought it was a hack as my heart melted and sadness took over. I will never forget this beautiful lady and her family. New to Jersey and made my first friends. She was always smiling ALWAYS. My heart will always hold you dear my friend. Ua ou misia oe pei o le valea.

Pamela's loss is important to us. She was so warm and open - a welcoming presence at Grace UCC. She will be much missed. Please accept our condolences.

In memory of Pamela Heggs, Finola Lynch lit a candle

Pam...I will miss you so very much: my good dear friend...Tina, Veronica, and the boys...I love you. Pam and I had lots of good times...very generous...caring...loving...and always God Bless You.

Pamela is already missed. I miss her sense of humor. She had such an engaging smile. I loved our time alone together. There were no pretentiousness when we hung out. Pamela never liked to be the center of attention, even when she was around friends. But her most endearing quality was her very sincere and genuine appreciation for anyone or anything that helped her. “Oh Mr. Bill! Thank you so much!” Pamela was not a person who had to be asked to contribute. When she saw something that needed to be done, especially something that would help someone else, she insisted on helping. She knew I loved the donuts and other treats she graced us with at our church gathering. Thank you Pam! On many occasions, Pamela joined me at an annual peace conference in DC. And she added her special voice on Lobby Day when we would meet with our Congressman and Senators. The picture included here was one of those rare Lobby Day occasions where she allowed me to take the picture, instead of vice versa. Pamela was always a welcome member of the NJ Lobbying Team. I will miss Pam’s participation in worship (from the back of our church). No way would she sit up front. And I already miss her delightful smile and hugs during our weekly “passing of the peace.” She was loved. We were all blessed to get to know her. My sincere condolences to her family.

Pam you were the shining light for whoever crossed your path. You had the biggest and brightest smile and heart ? God wanted one of his angels back. I love you ? Christina, my beautiful friend/sister you and your family have my deepest condolences.

So sorry for your loss Christina..our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..love you , Cuz❤

Sending our prayers and love to the family

My condolences from the Crocker/Hampton/Taylor Family!!!

Rest In Peace Aunt Pam. Thank you for everything I will miss you.I love you

My sincere condolences to the family and friends. Aunt Pam will be missed but never forgotten. May God bring peace and comfort at this time.

The Visit? Was but a moment, our thoughts we shared. Was but a moment our spirits did unite Beautifully bringing us such delight With daughter and grandchildren all around Joyful merriment laughter abound Oh how sweet, our backyard day will always be, the day your smile and warmth embraced me. But for a moment, a glitch in time Your memory is forever mine!? Loving submitted ? Loray"MiMi" Owens Tatieana Alston May God surround you abundantly with Love and Comfort Family!

In memory of Pamela Heggs, Zion Brooks lit a candle

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Hey MOMMOM, I already miss you I wish you were here right now, but I know your in a better place right now. I want to let you know you will always be in my heart and there will not be a day that I will not think of you. I love you so much, I wish we could’ve talked one more time before you passed. I love you mom mom.

This is so sad right now.... To all of the family I wholeheartedly give my condolences to all of you. Faith your in my thoughts and prayers, your mother was so funny every time I was in her presence. I’m grateful to have known Ms Pam ❤️ I pray for comfort for you all. Peace and blessings to everyone.

Mom, I'll always love U and forever protect Christina and the children! We'll miss U dearly! You'll forever be in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers!!!! S.I.P. Queen ?❤?

In memory of Pamela Heggs, Marvin D Pearson lit a candle

3626 N 9th st. Philadelphia pa 19140 I am so sorry for your loss . My prayers ? to you all Pamela children and grandchildren. I will miss your jolly smile and you telling me jokes. You was a very nice person and would help a stranger if they needed help. RIP Pamela ???? this is hard to believe ??

My prayers are going out to the family.I met mama Pam on the link right after relocating Highbridge NJ.soon after i met her daughter Christina and her grandchildren which became my family instantly.mama Pam would surely be missed although I know she is in a better place and that God needed her more.To my new family im here for you guys in any way.Im going to close this out with bunches of smooches Rest In Heaven Easy Mama Pam until we meet again

Hey grandma I hope your in a better place now I really miss you and I’m sure everyone else does I just want to say I love you you seemed like I very nice woman I remember it was this night I was missing you I asked aunt time for your number she gave me it and I was on the game got carried away and forgot to call dang I wish I would’ve caymans talked to you just one more time and seen you one more time I’m sorry that I didn’t call you before your passing please forgive me you will never be forgotten rip fly high grandma??

Hey grandma I hope your in a better place now I really miss you and I’m sure everyone else does I just want to say I love you you seemed like I very nice woman I remember it was this night I was missing you I asked aunt time for your number she gave me it and I was on the game got carried away and forgot to call dang I wish I would’ve caymans talked to you just one more time and seen you one more time I’m sorry that I didn’t call you before your passing please forgive me you will never be forgotten rip fly high grandma??

My deepest condolences to the family. Pam was not just another friend, she was part of my family and a mother to me. In the years we were blessed to have her, she always had a tender smile, she always send her blessing and always showed her love and affection to us. She was kind hearted, sympathetic, funny, humble and truly amazing. My family and I will truly miss you. Love Gardenia and family

My condolences to the family. Pam was more than a friend to my family, she was a mother. In the year we were bless to share with her, she made sure to always have a smile on her face, give us her sincere blessing and make us laugh. She was caring, kind, humble, and funny. My whole family were bless to have her around and we will treasure those special moment in our hearts. We will truly miss you. Love always the Schelmetty Almonte Family.

My Thoughts and Prayers are With You and Family.

Until that day, mom.

Herr is another memory of Pamela in service to her fellow human beings, working with other members of Grace United Church of Christ to help stock the shelves of the Flemington Food Pantry. Her smile and her willingness to work will be greatly missed. We love you, Pamela. RIP. And our deepest sympathies to her family.

Pamela was a lovely and loving member of Grace United Church of Christ. She loved to serve God and her fellow believers. Here she is helping to set up the worship space for Christmas Eve, 2015.

In memory of Pamela Heggs, C.B lit a candle

My Grandmother was such a loving and caring person. She always forgave people no matter what happened or how hard it was, and kept loving them unconditionally. Her head was always held high with positive spirit and kindness. She never failed to put a smile on my face or make me feel safe. Please rest well, I love you.

I don’t know what I’m supposed to do without you. I miss you so much mommy. I wish you could wrap me in your arms one last time. Although my heart is permanently broken, I know you are in heaven watching over us and that brings us great comfort.

Pamela was a kind and caring spirit who always prayed for others. Her service to her church and the love for her family were evident in all that she did. RIP, Pamela.

Pamela always greeted me at church, by saying with her beautiful smile, Good morning Miss Peggy! No matter how many times I told her to just call me Peggy, she insisted. A very special memory I have of Pamela is when we went to the last EAD Conference, where we were next door neighbors in the hotel. One evening we sat up late talking about life; the journeys we both had traveled. I will miss you my dear friend, Pamela. Fly with the angels.

Pamela was a bright spot wherever she went. She had a way about her that made you feel important. She was wise and surprised me with her insight into life. When she spoke, I listened. My heart breaks for her daughter and grandchildren. She will be missed.

Pamela, it was an honor to know you. You had such a loving heart and a strong passion for helping others. You enriched our community and you will be missed. May your kindness live on through your family.

I will miss you Pamela. Your sunny smile and gracious, kind ways. And your sincerity, your openness and honesty, and your willingness to share your life struggles and joys. I remember the first time I met you walking on a sunny Sunday morning and after chatting inviting you to join our church worship that morning. It was a privilege to know you over the years that followed. You will be missed.

Well, my friend, you are back home now, you certainly were and Angel visiting us. I will never forget your smile and your hugs, and the good times we had at the coat drive were you volunteer. You will be missed.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.