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Ronald Dale Heft, Jr.

June 29, 1962 - October 17, 2019
Service
Round Valley United Methodist Church
30 Main Street
Lebanon, NJ 08833
Saturday 11/23, 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Memorial

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Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., age 57 years, of Washington Township, NJ, died on Thursday, October 17, 2019. Born at Warren Hospital in Phillipsburg, NJ on June 29, 1962, Ron was the son of Ronald Dale Heft, Sr. and Virginia Strunk Heft. Raised in Hampton, he had lived in Washington for the past four years, havingContinue Reading

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Mary Lagasse left a message on May 22, 2020:
So sorry for your Mom & Dad and Corrine and Jesse. With fond memories of Ronnie.
Alex Wright left a message on November 18, 2019:
I am very grateful for Ron my father introduced me to him from that day on he and I developed a bond i knew him as a coach mentor and most of all friend he helped me get into the sport of bowling and i have a goal to one day live up to his name. Goodbye old friend you will be missed greatly.
Jeff heft left a message on November 7, 2019:
It’s been a couple weeks and I still can’t wrap my head around that you are gone. I looked forward to your inspirational message that you left daily on Facebook. I still go back and look at them. I enjoyed your stories and your live feeds from the bowling ally sharing the successes of the people you mentored. You brought parts of NJ to me daily with your post. You made me miss fishing! I’m gonna get back to the stream! Aunt Ginny, Uncle Ron, Corrine, Jesse, Rod and Kim.... Hugs... I can’t imagine the loss you feel. Ronnie was a true original and made positive impacts on many peoples lives. Something you all should be proud of. Love you all. R.I.P little Ronnie. ?
Jeff heft left a message on November 7, 2019:
It’s been a couple weeks and I still can’t wrap my head around that you are gone. I looked forward to your inspirational message that you left daily on Facebook. I still go back and look at them. I enjoyed your stories and your live feeds from the bowling ally sharing the successes of the people you mentored. You brought parts of NJ to me daily with your post. You made me miss fishing! I’m gonna get back to the stream! Aunt Ginny, Uncle Ron, Corrine, Jesse, Rod and Kim.... Hugs... I can’t imagine the loss you feel. Ronnie was a true original and made positive impacts on many peoples lives. Something you all should be proud of. Love you all. R.I.P little Ronnie. ?
Christine Moore left a message on November 5, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Christine Moore lit a candle
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John Spiridigliozzi left a message on November 5, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., John Spiridigliozzi lit a candle
Jennifer Schwartz left a message on November 4, 2019:
My heart goes out to all of you who loved Ron. I didn’t see him that often but whenever I did it made my day. I will always be proud to call him my cousin. He was a wonderful person who could always make me smile. ?
Dayle Bavk left a message on October 30, 2019:
Rest easy Ron, your work here on Earth is complete.... May you find peace amongst the angels ?
Jennifer farley left a message on October 27, 2019:
They may not remember your name, or what you did for a living, But people will ALWAYS remember how you made them feel.....I miss you and my heart thinks of you fondly❤️ You were always there for me, an unlikely friendship, but I miss the laughter and encouragement. You will always be my “voice of reason” prayers for your family.
Edward J Papkow left a message on October 26, 2019:
I lived next to Ron for 18-19 months he was a great person loved bowling and fishing he was always so happy and cheerful he will be missed and my prayers go out to his family, you will be missed my friend R.I.P.
Laura Geisel left a message on October 26, 2019:
My condolences to the family. I met Ron at the Flemington Speedway many years ago. So very sorry for this loss, he will be missed I’m sure by many.
Sandra d Hoagland left a message on October 26, 2019:
May he rest in PEACE.
Christine Stevens left a message on October 26, 2019:
Glen and I are very sorry for the Families loss. Prayers and Blessings to you All.
Eric Quinn (BowlerX) left a message on October 26, 2019:
So very sorry for your loss.. prayers of strength and healing be with you all.
KELLY LEVANDOWSKI left a message on October 26, 2019:
I am so so sorry for the loss, prayers are with everyone :(
Jeff Julian left a message on October 26, 2019:
We coached baseball together for 10+years. I coached the players and you coached me, teaching me more than baseball. You were a great friend to me and my family and we will miss you always. Rest In Peace my friend and thanks for being part of our lives
Joan Taylor Schliewenz left a message on October 26, 2019:
I will forever remember Ron's renewed zest for life when he found himself back in the sport he had left. Coming back to bowling and to all of his old friends seemed to energize him. Then life led him to coaching youth bowlers and to new friends. He inspired all in between posting score after score in his own game. I will forever miss him but am happy we reconnected and I caught his enthusiasm by way of all of his inspiring posts on Facebook and messages to me. xxx
Jacqueline (Harper) Gaskins left a message on October 25, 2019:
RIP Ronnie ... may you be at peace now and flying high with those angels. Our condolences to all the family members of Ron. Miss you buddy, say hi to my dad. The Harper Family
Russell Freeborn left a message on October 25, 2019:
Ronnie piece be with you. You were a great friend to me and my family. I enjoyed the times at oak wood and am greatfull for your help with my family when it was needed.
Bob Miers left a message on October 25, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Bob Miers lit a candle
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Bria left a message on October 25, 2019:
you were an amazing bowler and i loved to watch you bowl. you will be missed.
Bridgitt Lincoln left a message on October 25, 2019:
Ron recently reached out to me through FB. We had plans on getting together sometime soon...I met Ron in the 80s racing BMX behind the Hunterdon County Library. He was such a nice guy with a beautiful smile. I always looked forward to seeing him at the track. Such a pleasure.... I am grateful we became buddies for a short time on your journey....sail on Ronnie
Chris deemer left a message on October 25, 2019:
Aunt ginny, uncle ronny and hot rod and to ronnys family. I'm so very sorry for your loss! My prayers and love are with you!
Frank Bernabei left a message on October 25, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Frank Bernabei lit a candle
Butch Riddle jr. left a message on October 25, 2019:
My condolences to family and other friends that were close to Ron. He was a good man and will surely be missed.
Tara Rossi left a message on October 25, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Tara Rossi lit a candle
Jodi Cresitello left a message on October 24, 2019:
Ron, There are so many things I will miss.. I will miss your smile...I will miss your laughter, your bowling stories and can't forget about fishing.. It's been a week since you have left this Earth my heart breaks.. your memory will life on forever... Rest in peace my dear friend ?
Kate and Sheila left a message on October 24, 2019:
A beautiful smile. A huge heart. An honorable man. RIP Ron. You are loved and missed, and always will be. May God bless and comfort your loved ones.
Gloria Payne left a message on October 24, 2019:
Ginny and family, so sorry for your loss. In my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Doug Meshach left a message on October 24, 2019:
You will alway be remembered as a Great Friend and you will be deeply missed
Mom left a message on October 24, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Mom lit a candle
Jennifer LaLonde left a message on October 23, 2019:
Darren Sambol and I Jennifer LaLonde ,only have known you for A short time. We both are so saddened to hear the news. Rest In Peace ,to you ..Ronnie was A wonderful person ...You will be missed, by us. Thanks for giving my boyfriend the good fishing Spot! ..We caught lots of eels. To the family we are so very sorry, for your loss. All my prayers to you..?
Terri Hutchinson left a message on October 23, 2019:
Love and prayers for you all during this most difficult time.
Jayne Beam left a message on October 23, 2019:
Ginny,Ronnie and family my deepest sympathy !!! RIP Cousin
Julie & John Sager left a message on October 23, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Julie & John Sager lit a candle
Emily & Harold Bird left a message on October 23, 2019:
Please accept our deepest condolences to the entire Heft family
Yvonne Smith left a message on October 23, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Yvonne Smith lit a candle
Yvonne Smith left a message on October 23, 2019:
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Greg And Sharon Wright left a message on October 22, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Greg And Sharon Wright lit a candle
Deborah S Middaugh left a message on October 22, 2019:
I am so very sorry to hear about Ron. My condolences to the family. He will be sadly missed by a lot of people. There a lot of good memories from all of the bowling years, RIP Ronald.
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Amanda Gaughran left a message on October 22, 2019:
There are no words. My deepest sympathy!!! RIP Cousin.
Suzanne Bridge left a message on October 22, 2019:
So truly sorry to hear of Ron's passing. My heartfelt condolences to the entire Heft family. May you find comfort with all the wonderful memories that were made.
Janice Davis(Smith) left a message on October 22, 2019:
So sorry to hear of Ronnie's passing. He will be missed by so many. Rest in peace my friend.
ED Deemer/ Ethel Walker left a message on October 22, 2019:
RIP our friend hefty you will be very missed by us.
KEVIN AND DEBB SKELTON left a message on October 22, 2019:
HEFT FAMILY, OUR HEARTS ACHE FOR YOU. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY KEVI AND DEBB SKELTON
Carolyn Miller left a message on October 22, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Carolyn Miller lit a candle
Jamie L Woolf left a message on October 22, 2019:
Fly high angel
Corrina schneck left a message on October 22, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Corrina schneck lit a candle
Jill Hummel left a message on October 22, 2019:
RIP
Chrissy vanduyne left a message on October 22, 2019:
You will be truly missed you will always be loved
Doug Zander left a message on October 22, 2019:
Ronnie, you are and will always be missed by many, may you Rest In Peace
David Scioscia left a message on October 22, 2019:
God Bless
Ray Zellner left a message on October 21, 2019:
My sincerest prayers and condolences fo out to Ron's family and friends at this time of mourning! Ron was a great friend and at any time could put a smile of people's faces! He will truly be missed by me and all that knew him. Fly high Ron, till we meet on the lanes again my friend!
Ray Zellner left a message on October 21, 2019:
My sincerest prayers and condolences fo out to Ron's family and friends at this time of mourning! Ron was a great friend and at any time could put a smile of people's faces! He will truly be missed by me and all that knew him. Fly high Ron, till we meet on the lanes again my friend!
Ray Zellner left a message on October 21, 2019:
My sincerest prayers and condolences fo out to Ron's family and friends at this time of mourning! Ron was a great friend and at any time could put a smile of people's faces! He will truly be missed by me and all that knew him. Fly high Ron, till we meet on the lanes again my friend!
Jen Wilson left a message on October 21, 2019:
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Jen & Marc Wilson
Dale Edmonds Schiavon left a message on October 21, 2019:
I would like to express my condolences to the Family of Mr. Heft , especially his parents , Mr. and Mrs . Ronald Heft Sr. May God wrap you in his arms and comfort you during this time.
Joy hilliker left a message on October 21, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Joy hilliker lit a candle
Rhonda strunk left a message on October 21, 2019:
We are going to miss you little Ronnie R. I. P. Cuz love you
Robyn Frederick Chiappetta left a message on October 21, 2019:
I am so sorry to hear of Ron's passing. Hefty, Ginny, Hot Rod and Jessie you are all in my thoughts and prayers..
Mary Garey left a message on October 21, 2019:
My heart is broken. Ronnie was so sweet, funny and caring. He was a a great guy. He was always so happy. My heart breaks for his family. He will be so missed by everyone. Sending prayers and love. I pray he is at peace now and my brother will look after him in heaven.
Renee Ballentine left a message on October 21, 2019:
I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. My sincerest condolences to Ron’s family. ??
Stella Becton left a message on October 21, 2019:
Thoughts & prayers with all the Helf families.
Darlene Bajor left a message on October 21, 2019:
I met your boys when I worked as a teen for you the high school summer my senior year. My first impression was what sweet young boys are you sure they are yours??? They grew up to be very amazing young men. You and Ginny sure did something right !!! May your hearts be filled with the joy he brought your family and his friends. God bless and keep your family close. ? a big hug, Darlene
Stacie & Paul Brown left a message on October 21, 2019:
Our deepest sympathies to the entire Heft family.
Donna Gares left a message on October 21, 2019:
My sincerest condolences to the heft family.
Pete and Priscilla Jacobson left a message on October 21, 2019:
Our deepest sympathy to the whole family.
Kevin and Elizabeth Duff left a message on October 21, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Kevin and Elizabeth Duff lit a candle
Mary Lagasse left a message on October 21, 2019:
You will be missed emancily Your Friend from Mass.
Sara A Armbrecht left a message on October 21, 2019:
So very sorry for your loss. Ron had worked with my uncle on Leb Twsp road crew. I loved hearing stories of my Uncle Art from Ron. I loved seeing him and his quick smile. May your spirit always shine down on your family. RIP
Deb Brandt left a message on October 21, 2019:
My sincere condolences to Ginny & Ronnie and family on the loss of great son, brother & friend to all. Will miss Ronnie Jr superior smile. Luv to all of you.
Don Schuyler left a message on October 21, 2019:
Thoughts and Prayers to the entire Heft family along with all of Ronny’s friends and extended family. R.I.P . My Friend ???
Janet Murphy-Stott left a message on October 21, 2019:
An kind, gentle and beautiful soul gone too soon. Please watch over your loved ones as they try to find comfort in the coming days. Fly high with the angels, Ron.
Fran hoffman left a message on October 21, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Fran hoffman lit a candle
Daniel Tampier left a message on October 21, 2019:
In memory of Ronald Dale Heft, Jr., Daniel Tampier lit a candle
Melissa Barket left a message on October 21, 2019:
Ronnie was a wonderful man. Always there for anyone who needed him. My love and condolences go out to Uncle Ronnie, Aunt Ginny, Hot Rod, Kim and especially Corinne and Jesse. So very sorry for your loss.
Debbi uhler left a message on October 21, 2019:
My condolences go out to his kids, family and friends Ron will be missed dearly I will certainly miss him being a pain in my ass.. love ya Ron!! RIP MY DEAR?? Love Debbi
Diane Housman Brown left a message on October 21, 2019:
Much love & sympathy to the Heft family. Diane Brown
Jackie Post Szekers left a message on October 21, 2019:
Prayers and thought to the Heft family..Ron will be truly be missed. Rest in peace!!
Pauline and Bucky Schuyler left a message on October 21, 2019:
Ronnie your gonna be missed dearly. Won't forget the last time Bucky and I seen you at hot rods you came and gave me a big hug and kiss. And shook Bucky's hand .May you rest in peace ?
Miranda Freezer left a message on October 21, 2019:
My thoughts and prayers to the Heft family during this most difficult time. May God watch over all of you. No words but the memories of a big smile, proud father, and a great bowler. That's the way I knew Ron all these years growing up at the bowling alley. ❤?
Pete,Betty, bob howell left a message on October 21, 2019:
RIP
Linda Waas left a message on October 21, 2019:
Ron, you were so much more than a fellow bowler to Rick and Brian. You were a coach, you were a cheerleader (even when they were bowling against you!), you were a mentor and father-figure - and to all three of us, you were an amazingly wonderful man and friend. I will always remember your smile, your sense of humor, and your loving heart. I will always love you, Ron. Condolences to your family, your friends, and to all of us who have a "Ronnie Heft"-sized hole in our hearts.
The Smith's family @ bel pike lanes left a message on October 21, 2019:
RIP RON u will be miss u were a great person and a friend to everyone at bel pike
Brent Sliker left a message on October 21, 2019:
My deepest sympathy to Ron's family.
Susan K Mahoney left a message on October 21, 2019:
You were our earth angel,now you are an angel watching over us.I wish I could bring joy to people on earth like you did,because what the world needs is more love and joy.Fly high and when I hear thunder I’ll know you are bowling another 300.Sorry you were enduring pain in silence.God Bless the Heft family and all of your friends and acquaintances.
Ada Botzan left a message on October 21, 2019:
Ron was on my bowling team at Oakwood for many years. I along with everyone there loved him. My fondest memories were how much he was dedicated to bowling but to his friends as well. He had the best smile and prankster personality! He one time took a small amount of chewing tobacco and put in my Diet Coke while I was up bowling. I kept asking him if he spit that in there! Laugh oh my goodness . He was the best bowler with perfect 300’s and converted splits. I’m so saddened by his passing and May he RIP. God Bless his family and friends. Fondly, Ada
Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home and Cremation Services left a message:
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