In life, we are almost always planning ahead for our future. Planning toward a personal goal or planning for the next phase of life. At Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home and Cremation Service, we serve families here in Flemington, Hunterdon County and the surrounding areas that are particularly goal-oriented. We set a plan, so we can know where we’re headed. Planning relieves stress and answers many questions ahead of time. One thing people do not always plan for is their final arrangements. When a loved one unexpectedly dies, you can expect family and friends to have conversations centered around questions such as:
- What type of service did he want?
- Where did she want to be buried?
- Did he want traditional burial or cremation?
This is especially true if final wishes were not preplanned. Preplanning is a clear solution, even a gift, to friends and family who need time to grieve. Sometimes people hesitate to preplan, citing concerns like cost or flexibility. At Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home and Cremation Service, we want to address the top three concerns, or “myths,” about preplanning, so you can clearly see the benefits and be able to make the right choice for you and your family.
Myth #1: You are required to pay for your arrangements ahead of time.
This is one of the biggest misconceptions about preplanning your funeral. While we do offer pre-payment options in order to make life less complicated when a loved one dies, pre-paying is a choice and not a necessity. Preplanning can simply mean trusting us to keep your information and final wishes on file with our staff.
Myth #2: Once you’ve planned with one funeral home, you’re locked into that choice.
Well, it depends on who you plan with. If you plan with us at Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home and Cremation Service, you can change your mind at any time. We understand that circumstances can change, or people move, so we make our services and arrangements completely transferrable.
Myth #3: Preplanning leaves family and friends out of the planning process.
We strongly encourage you to include your family in preplanning, if they desire. While it’s better to make the big decisions in advance, many of the smaller details can wait until the time of need. For example, your loved ones might want to choose flowers and songs that will help celebrate your life and get them through this difficult time. For items that are important to you, you may want to discuss your preferences with your family in advance. Your loved ones will appreciate that you preplanned your final wishes, and they will not be left wondering what you really wanted.
Come visit us in Flemington, and we can help you with all of these funeral options to make sure everything is done the way you want. Feel free to contact us with more questions about preplanning, so we can continue to challenge the myths and prove there are only benefits.
10 Responses to “ Top Three Myths About Preplanning ”
Ron Booker posted on July 17, 2019 at 2:42 pm:
I like how you mentioned that planning relieves stress and answer many questions ahead of time. My dad is getting old even do he has good health, I think it is best to plan his funeral while he’s still alive. Thank you for sharing these awesome benefits you can have when you plan ahead. http://www.brinsfieldfuneral.com/sitemaker/sites/Brinsf1/?page=pg__preplanning
Faylinn Byrne posted on July 26, 2019 at 12:31 pm:
I never thought about the question “What type of service would I want?”, and your article helped me start thinking about it. My husband passed away recently, and he mentioned he wants to be sent off with all of his loved ones surrounding him and with a bouquet of white lilies. I am glad he mentioned that so I was able to start preparing for his funeral. I still need to contact a professional in my area, but I think being prepared earlier will help with the process.
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Ron Booker posted on August 1, 2019 at 2:50 pm:
I like that you said that preplanning your funeral is important because you can give your family ideas about what you want at that point in time. My parents and I talked about if they would like to be buried or cremated and they didn’t know what to respond. The next time we talk I’m going to let them know the options and benefits of each one so that we can start preplanning. https://www.mrfh.com/need_now
Randy Chorvack posted on August 5, 2019 at 10:46 am:
I really like how you said to include your family in preplanning. Not only does it give everyone peace of mind, but it also helps them grieve in a way that they feel is best. I’ve been thinking about pre-planning my funeral, and if I do I’ll definitely make sure to include my daughter in the process. https://www.ricketsonfuneralhome.com/what-we-do/funeral-services
Angela Waterford posted on September 18, 2019 at 7:01 pm:
I never knew that pre-planning for funeral services is an optional choice since I don’t have the money to pay for my plan in advance. In my opinion, it’s still better to have a cremation plan before you need it in case you pass in an accident or illness. Thanks for clarifying this for me, and since I need to find a funeral service with option, I’ll be sure to keep this in mind. http://www.unionfuneralhome.com/_mgxroot/page_10752.php
Skylar Williams posted on November 12, 2019 at 3:47 pm:
I like that you said that it is a good idea to include loved ones in the preplanning of your funeral. My mother told me that she’s starting to plan her funeral service and she isn’t sure if she wants to be cremated or buried. Whatever she decides, I’m glad she’s including me. http://www.wvi.com/~dnielson/staytonbusiness/NSFuneralS.htm
Shaylee Packer posted on December 5, 2019 at 9:43 am:
It seems as though it would be a good idea to do some preplanning, that way your loved ones will have some sort of direction on what should be done. As you mentioned, just because you talked to one funeral home, you do not have to do the funeral there. That would be good to know in the instance that the loved one chooses to be buried in a different state in which they passed away.
Anees posted on February 10, 2020 at 2:16 am:
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Conrad O'Connor posted on March 27, 2020 at 2:22 pm:
It’s good that you point out that preplanning your funeral saves your family from having to do it while they are grieving. I want to save my family the stress, so I’m considering preplanning my funeral myself. I’m going to look for a good funeral home in my area that offers preplanning services.
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Charlotte Fleet posted on March 31, 2020 at 7:56 pm:
I like that you mention that you can plan for your funeral beforehand by paying for your funeral expenses but you don’t have to prepay. My husband and his parents have been preparing for their funerals. I think we should look into finding a funeral director for help planning.
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