Marielena (Marie-Elena) Miller

March 27, 1963 - September 7, 2016

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Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home

Marielena Miller, age 53 years, of East Amwell Township, NJ, died on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 at Overlook Medical Center, Summit, NJ.

Born in Brooklyn, NY, March 27, 1963, daughter of Anthony Vito and Jean Ruth Spano Fasanella, she had resided in Ringoes, NJ for the past twenty years, she had formerly resided in Somerset and South Plainfield, NJ.

Also known as Marie-Elena, she had formerly worked as a Human Resource Manager for Price Waterhouse Coopers, NYC, NY.

A true humanitarian by nature, Marielena’s compassion was felt by all who came into her presence. If she had only a $5.00 bill in her possession, she would give someone in need that $5.00 and inquire what more she could do. That is who she is and the legacy she leaves for those to live by, hoping, as John Lennon wrote, “They may say I am a dreamer, perhaps I am not the only one. One day I hope you’ll join us, and the world will live as one.”

In addition to her kindness and compassion, Marielena loved working out and keeping in good physical shape.

She was preceded in death by her father-in-law, Robert Miller.

In addition to her parents, she is survived by her loving and devoted husband of twenty-seven years, Michael R. Miller with whom she joined hands in marriage on October 1, 1988; her brother, Anthony Mario Fasanella of Philadelphia, PA; her mother-in-law, Helen Rose Miller of South Plainfield, NJ; several brothers and sisters-in-law, aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family and many close friends.

Funeral services officiated by Rev. Walter Wilktorek will take place on Tuesday, September 13, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. in Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 38 State Highway 31, Flemington, NJ.

Interment will be private.

Visitation will be Monday, September 12, 2016 from 2:00-4:00 and 6:00-8:00 p.m. and Tuesday from 10:00-11:00 a.m., all at the funeral home.

Everyone is invited to visit Marielena’s permanent memorial site at www.wrightfamily.com to send a public or private message of condolence and to share stories and photographs of her life.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to St. Jude Childrens Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Wright & Ford Family Funeral Home

Marielena Miller, age 53 years, of East Amwell Township, NJ, died on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 at Overlook Medical Center, Summit, NJ. Born in Brooklyn, NY, March 27, 1963, daughter of Anthony Vito and Jean Ruth Spano Fasanella, she had resided in Ringoes, NJ for the past twenty years, she had formerly resided in SomersetContinue Reading

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Happy Birthday, Baby Girl. Another year, not being able to sing Happy Birthday to you on the phone. It gave us such pleasure to make you giggle, that special giggle you had. I still think it’s been a bad dream that I never wake from. We hope you know how much you were loved and appreciated. You were the best daughter a parent could wish for. I toast a glass of Prosecco to celebrate your life. I know that you are partying with grandma, whom you loved so much. You are in my heart forever. Love, Mom and Dad

Dearest Marielena, This is our first Christmas without you. We will miss your warm smile. The love you have given us all through your short life.You are and wil always be the best daughter ever. Michael will be here. We will share all the happy memories we have together. Always,Mom and Dad

Dear Michael and family, Michael, thank you for calling me back yesterday and letting me know about Marie-Elena. As I mentioned to you we were “train buddies” who became “lunch buddies”. Back in 2011 we happen to be on the same train to Newark and later in the afternoon found ourselves on the same train back to Raritan. We decided to have lunch at TGI Fridays, and that began our friendship. We would try to meet up as often as we could; sometime once or twice a month or maybe not for two or three mos. If we couldn’t meet up we would email or call each other just to check in. When we did meet, our lunches seemed to go on forever. We would always joke that we never shut-up, that we always found things to say. Whenever I was feeling down, she would always give me words of encouragement. Last December we volunteered to help decorate a house for the 2015 Stanton Holly Trail. Marie-Elena even talked to the chairman about having your house on the 2016 tour, however, Ringos is outside the perimeter for the tour. Sadly, the last time we connected was the day she collapsed, we emailed late in the afternoon about the 2016 Stanton Holly Trail. When our lunches were over and it was time to say goodbye, we would always give each other a hug and say lets do this again soon She was a beautiful, kind and loving friend, I will miss her so so so much. My condolences, Linda Miller

I never expected when I met Jean while working for Home Smith I would one day, years later, work with her now "grown-up" daughter and develop a lasting friendship with her. Years had gone by since I worked with Jean. I had started my career at Bellcore, when one day my new work friend was showing me her wedding album. In the pictures, there was my friend Jean as mother of the bride. Jean's little girl was now working with me. This is the day our friendship was sealed and continued throughout the years. We were so close and knew each other so well we were given the nickname, the Dolphins. Even when time went by without seeing each other, we would just pick up where we left off as if no time had passed at all. I will keep Marie-Elena in my heart forever. I will miss you Dolphin. Love you, Marcia, the "Other Dolphin"

I still think Marie-Elena is with us - her spirit is too big to be gone from us. I will miss hearing her voice and the strength of her well informed opinions. Book club won't be the same without her. Heaven is better for her. Much love and misses, and prayers for her family.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Dear Michael, Jean, Tony and Anthony, With deepest sympathy. She was taken too soon from us. All my love and prayers, Jean Dana

Dear Anthony, My sincere sympathy on the lost of your beloved sister. May God comfort you. Love Aunt Antoinette.

Dear Michael, I offer you my condolences. May God comfort you. Love Aunt Antoinette.

Dear Jean and Tony, There are no words...There is nothing so horrible as a parent losing a child. I join my sorrow with yours. May the Lord comfort you. Love Aunt Antoinette.

Dear Michael, I am stunned. I offer condolences and ask that the Good Lord comfort you. Aunt Antoinette

Our deepest condolences, we pray that her loving memories will give you some comfort. Heaven has gained an Angel.

I am in absolute shock that I can not ever see and hear her again, always ready to hear your latest life adventures. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family.

One of the loveliest, kindest people I have ever met. Such a shock that she has passed. Mrs. Miller made every moment brighter with her sweet voice and smile; she always had a kind word. She certainly enriched my life and no doubt the life of everyone she ever met. Our world is a sadder place today - but Heaven has gained such a bright angel. Rest in peace.

I am so sorry to hear this. I cannot express my sorrow and I feel heartbroken and speechless. With love. Louis

Marie-Elena welcomed me into her life as did Michael, Jean and Tony with open arms and affectionate, caring hearts - something I will always cherish. It was a bright and lovely time every time she visited Dusty (Anthony) and me, or when we went to her and Michael's home. A memorable, lively and fun family get together at the holidays always full of true Italian food and tradition. She was stubborn by nature, yes, a beautiful reflection of a tenacious personality that was always learning and growing. She was caring and inquisitive. I believe anyone who met her missed her as soon as she walked away, a unique and amazing person who shone bright - and clearly an amalgamation of her loving and lasting relationship with Michael and her affectionate and caring family. Be in peace, sweet soul.

Marie-Elena was one of the loveliest people I've ever known. She was a kind considerate person and would do anything for you. She was always so vibrant and full of energy; she will be greatly missed by all who knew her. My heart goes out to her husband Michael, her parents and her brother. My deepest sympathy.

I did not know her well, but she was one of the best personalities down at our karate school. I'd always see her coming in for her kickboxing cardio class and she ALWAYS greeted me with a big smile and a hello. It's personalities like hers that brightens a person's day! My condolences to her family.

We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

We've lived in the same neighborhood as Mike and Marie Elena for 12 years. Such a nice couple.. Marie Elena was always so wondeful and generous to my daughter Jenna when she, as a Girl Scout would ask neighbors if they wanted to buy Girl Scout cookies!.. She showed so much interest in what Jenna was up to as she was once a Girl Scout herself. What a sweet soul. So hard to comprehend how such a healthy, young vibrant person can be taken away so soon. Mike, our deepest condolences to you and all your family... I know words can't heal your broken heart and pain .. But hope you can find some level of comfort in knowing that your beautiful wife touched so many lives.. May she rest in peace now... God Bless

So MEM (my nickname for MarieElena) and I met when we were colleagues at United Health Group (2007-2009) being hired about the same time in 2007, her in New Jersey and me in Connecticut. Our first face to face meeting was when we had to be in Minnesota for an HR meeting, we arranged our flights so that we would meet at the airport and then take a taxi together. My flight landed first and I went to the gate to meet MEM, never having laid eyes on her before, when she entered the terminal it was instant karma, which turned into 9 years of a remarkable friendship. Maybe because we are both born in March or maybe it was our connection with the great Wayne Dyer or maybe due to a higher Being than the both of us put together. While I “physically” haven’t seen MEM in over 7 years we connected all the time on the phone, her constantly inviting me to come visit in NJ, “we need to get together”. We would constantly talk about our current HR jobs as if we were the only ones who could understand each other. MEM believed with all of her heart that we were destined to work together and constantly said we should start a business; I guess the Ying and Yang of our relationship. I still can’t believe that you have been taken from us way too early, but God has a reason for everything. I guess we all need another Angel to look out for us in heaven as that is the only logical reason for you to be physically taken from our presence. I will miss our conversations and guidance you provided on the phone, but know you are still watching out for me and everyone who ever called you a friend or part of their family. I will end this the way you ended every phone call we had over the past 9 years, “stay well my friend”, I will miss you more than you will ever know. Until we meet again, my friend.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Dear Michael, Jean, Tony and Anthony. I am so sorry for your loss. She was too young. Marie Elena was a beautiful person inside and out. May she rest in peace. I remember like it was yesterday the times on 9W with her little table, and grandma making her dolls clothes. Marie Elena would dress them so nicely. And grew up to dress so maticulously. Good,Good memories.

Mike, There are no words to express how sorry we are for your loss. Know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. -Barbara and Neal Davis

Marie-Elena Miller was my client and friend for almost 3 years. This woman traveled the world, worked in direct correspondence with high profile CEO's, wore biker boots, loved (and I mean LOVED) Led Zeppelin, owned a medieval suit of armor, bought a Salvador Dali because she could, exercised 6 days a week, and was planning to retire in Hawaii this year. Boy, she was impressive. She was stubborn, wouldn't take "no" for an answer (like...ever), she was charismatic, she was a badass, she was encouraging, she was a mentor, and my friend. She was extremely supportive of me and my business since we met. She was truly a bright light and is deeply missed.

What I remember most about Marie-Elena was her bubbly personality and laugh. She took pride in who she was and what she did and had a very caring heart. I was so happy when she shared my wedding day as a bridesmaid. While distance and time have separated us I would often reflect on both her and Michael. I am so sorry for your loss, Michael. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers. The Fasanella family was extremely kind and generous to me in my younger years and all of you will forever have a special place in my heart. I am blessed to have known all of you and pray that Heavenly Father will lessen your sorrow and help you through this tragic, difficult time. Marie-Elena's beauty and poise now grace heaven and when we remember her fondly and with a smile heaven will grow brighter for it.

Mike, I know that words are inadequate at this difficult time but my thoughts are with you. May your many memories bring you comfort.

On behalf of the Houston Bears, I would like to extend my deepest sympathies. I know it is difficult to come to terms with this loss. May you find peace and comfort.

Our deepest condolences to your family.

To Dustin and Family, Please accept my deepest and sincere sympathy on the loss of your sister, daughter and wife to your brother-in law. Know that Marielena is with the Lord and she is at peace. God comforts. Trust in the Lord. Be strong. Have Faith. You will be together one day. With sincere sympathy, Sandy Dawes

Though we've not seen each other in over 10 years, I really enjoyed knowing you and that you were my first sister-in-law that was fun to be around with. My deepest condolences and sympathies for your family. Hugs to Michael, Dustin, Jean and Anthony from Houston Texas.

There NEVER was a kinder, more loving individual than Marie-Elena. When she walked into a room, her presence was radiant and her natural glow melted your hearts. She was classy, brilliant, fun to be with and emanated natural beauty inside and out. Words alone can never express how much we loved her as a special friend and how much she will be missed. May she rest in peace.

Marie Elena was a most unique person with an optimistic and caring outlook on life and always there for her friends with a wonderful listening ear. We will truly miss her and she will live in our hearts forever.

Our sincerest sympathies go out to each and every member of Marielena's family. Please know that the trust placed in our family by your family is not lost on us; we are here for each of you anytime, so do not hesitate to contact us at 908.782.3311. Respectfully, D.J. Wright

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.